Not all divorces are contentious and result in drawn-out court battles. Some couples who choose to end their marriage are able to reasonably get along and work together to come up with a fair divorce agreement. Those couples may find that mediation is a cheaper, quicker, and more amiable process. Mediation Allows for Better Communication…
Going through a divorce is not fun, nor is it easy. However, if you are prepared, there are many benefits, including a quicker process, less expense, and a better outcome. The Importance of Being Organized Whether you are going through litigation or using a mediator, being organized will help you get a better outcome. Being…
A divorce is one of the toughest emotional processes most people will go through. It’s not just another break-up; two people must unravel the life they built together. So instead of going it alone or getting expensive lawyers involved, let a mediator help you. Get an Objective Opinion It’s not surprising that divorce discussions get…
Divorce is not something people expect to go through when they get married. Unfortunately, almost 50% of marriages will end in this way. The idea of divorce brings up a lot of stress and negative thoughts in most people’s minds. They assume they will face a lengthy legal process including a battle in court to…
No one wants to have to go to court to resolve an issue. The court process seems to increase stress and pressure during a difficult time. Divorce is no exception. It is one of the top stress producers in life. Why make it more complicated and stressful by having to appear in court? There are…
If you and your spouse have separated but are not ready for one or various reasons to file for divorce you may want to consider legal separation. There are many reasons you may not want to file for divorce but whether you are still deciding if you will divorce or never plan to formally divorce…
If there is one thing that is never easy in divorce, it is financial discussions. These conversations about the division of assets and debts can be fraught with things like anger, blame, fear, secrecy, and more. Even spouses that are amicably divorcing may fear their spouse has hidden assets, despite being legally required to disclose…
Getting a divorce is emotional no matter what the circumstances are. Emotions may range from sadness to anger to hurt, and much more. When we experience heightened emotions, I can get in the way of rational decision-making. To put it simply, when we are particularly emotional it impacts our judgment. In many circumstances this may…
Not all divorces need to be tense, emotionally draining, and expensive. A dissolution of marriage can be obtained when a divorce is uncontested and both spouses agree on how they will divide their property and debts. When this is the case, you still need to submit paperwork and go through the court system to obtain…
It can be hard enough just to leave a spouse if they are verbally abusive but it adds a layer of complexity in divorce mediation that can be intimidating for anyone. And, there are often spouses that do not even realize they have been experiencing verbal abuse because it often makes you doubt your own…
Divorce can be very challenging both emotionally and financially. For a stay-at-home mom that has chosen to leave the traditional workforce and support her family at home, the prospect of divorce can be very scary. Not having an active and current resume, no matter how long you’ve been a stay-at-home mom, can cause challenges in…
If you have experienced domestic abuse of any kind and are seeking legal separation or divorce you may think mediation is not a viable option. But, this is a common misconception and mediation can be successful and safe in many cases. Domestic abuse can take many forms including physical violence, verbal abuse, financial abuse, controlling…