
What to Know About Legal Separation
If you and your spouse have separated but are not ready for one or various reasons to file for divorce you may want to consider legal separation. There are many reasons you may not want to file for divorce but whether you are still deciding if you will divorce or never plan to formally divorce but will remain separated, filing for legal separation will protect you legally and financially moving forward. If you hear the term “legal separation” and begin to cringe at the idea of having to go to court – fear not – you can file for legal separation through a mediator and never have to deal with the stress and expense of hiring lawyers and going to court.
When working with a mediator to file for legal separation, you will work to divide your property and assets as well as your debts, resolve spousal support issues, establish child support agreements and support amounts, etc. in a fair and respectful way. Even if your separation is amicable, it is important to protect yourself legally and financially by filing for legal separation because it ends community property rights and obligations. This way, things are divided fairly and neither spouse is responsible for things like a newly accrued debt which you would be responsible for without filing for legal separation.
Legal separation meditation functions very similarly to divorce mediation but the difference is, with legal separation you retain your marital status but with divorce mediation, you end your marital status. And, just like in divorce mediation, complicated emotions including sadness, anger, resentment, and more may arise which is why working with a mediator is always best. Your mediator has experience in both law and psychology and can help you and your spouse navigate legal separation while prioritizing respectful communication, fair negotiations, and equitable decisions. At the end of working with a mediator on your legal separation, you will have a legally binding agreement that protects both spouses for the duration of separation. And, your divorce mediator will complete the legal separation petition that needs to be filed with the court so that your separation is recognized by the state. If you are trying to determine whether to legally separate or divorce and need guidance for the process, consult an experienced and knowledgeable divorce and legal separation mediator to get the advice you need and get the process started.