A Mediator Guides the Divorce Process for a Peaceful Division of Assets

A Mediator Guides the Divorce Process for a Peaceful Division of Assets

Going through a divorce is usually stressful, and the division of assets is a big source of conflict. One alternative to a contentious court battle is mediation, in which a mediator helps both sides agree to a fair and equitable divorce settlement.

How a Mediator Helps with Asset Division

During mediation, a mediator listens to both sides about what they want and then helps them collaborate to figure out the best way to divide assets. Because this topic often leads to arguments and stonewalling, the mediator is skilled in conflict resolution. He or she may also provide some alternative solutions that neither party would think about on their own. The mediator also helps each side determine what is really important to them.

Tips for a Peaceful Mediation

Figuring out how to divide assets is usually not easy. One way to improve the chances of a peaceful discussion is to write down ahead of time what you really want, what you do not want at all, and what you are willing to compromise. Understand that there will be items you both want, and plan to approach the issue calmly and logically.

The mediators at Out-of-Court Solutions understand the conflicts involving asset division. Contact them to find out how they can help the process proceed more peacefully.

About Oliver Ross

Oliver Ross, JD*, PhD founded Out-of-Court Solutions Inc. in 1995 and since then has mediated over 3,000 divorce and family matters. He is a select member of the Maricopa Superior Court Family Mediation roster