Using Mediation to Help with Legal Separation
Many married couples who decide they are incompatible choose to legally end their marriage via divorce. However, some spouses choose the middle ground and decide on a legal separation. This allows them to live apart and stay legally married, which can be beneficial in terms of healthcare and other spousal benefits, filing joint tax returns, and keeping the door open for reconciliation. Mediation is a good way to come up with a separation agreement, as it is less contentious than going through the court system.
How Divorce Mediation Works
In mediation, a third-party mediator works with both parties to decide issues related to legal separation. As a neutral party, the mediator listens to the wants and needs of each party and helps them come up with a fair and agreeable plan. The mediator also has the skills to resolve conflicts between the two parties and offer alternative solutions to issues.
Mediation has risen in popularity over the years, in part because it is cheaper and quicker than court litigation would be. Each party also has more control throughout the process and of the outcome. Because of the collaborative process, there is better communication between the two spouses, and there is less stress overall.
What Topics a Mediator Helps Discuss for Legal Separation
Mediation sessions for marriage separation are similar as those for divorce. The mediator helps the couple come to agreements about:
- Property and asset division
- Debt allocation
- Parenting arrangements and schedules
- Child support
- Spousal support
All topics discussed in mediation are confidential, and the mediator should ensure that the end agreement is fair to both parties.
If you and your partner are interested in separating and want to work together to come up with an agreement, give us a call at Out of Court Solutions. During a free consultation, we can answer any questions you have about the process and help you get started.